My best friend from high school, Jeff Swanson, lives in Princeton right now, about an hour from Philly. When we were there for Sarah's graduation, he was able to drive in. He's a great guy and I'm very, very happy to have him in my life after all these years.
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Monday, June 01, 2009
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Kim's back
I've been very sad for the past year that Kim, one of my oldest friends, had dropped out of sight. I couldn't reach her on the phone, email and snail mail weren't effective... I didn't know what was wrong, but it saddened me greatly.
I got email from her the other day and we talked on the phone for an hour or so on Wednesday. She's alive, she's fine, and she had been suffering from sleep apnea to the point that she simply couldn't do anything. I'm greatly sorry her health was so bad, but I'm quite happy that she's on the mend now. Old friends are always hard to lose and she's one of the best. It's great to have you back in my life, Kim.

I got email from her the other day and we talked on the phone for an hour or so on Wednesday. She's alive, she's fine, and she had been suffering from sleep apnea to the point that she simply couldn't do anything. I'm greatly sorry her health was so bad, but I'm quite happy that she's on the mend now. Old friends are always hard to lose and she's one of the best. It's great to have you back in my life, Kim.
Kim's back
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Monday, October 24, 2005
Larry & Topaz's 25th Anniversary
The Babe and I drove up to Portland on Saturday, October 1st, for Larry and Topaz's 25th wedding anniversary (an occasion that I hope to be celebrating myself with the Babe in 22 years).
I've known Topaz since 1975. I met her through the Society for Creative Anachronism, which I was heavily involved with for some years. She and Larry have been married since 1980 and were having a big open house at their place in Portland to celebrate the event. Topaz is a joy and I have always thought of her as a point of stability and a person who always provided great advice and had an aura of calm that extended to everyone around her. I didn't see her for a number of years and then reconnected with her about 7 years ago. I'm happy to have her back in my life.
Side note: The SCA was a grand time for me. I met a lot of fine people that I've remained friends with to this day. I even achieved some pretty decent rank in the SCA, becoming a Court Baron with a Grant of Arms. My SCA name, in case anyone should ever Google me, was/is Gandharva Candra Gehe Candrasya. I'd hoped to get Susan and Sarah interested, but it's not really them.
The point of bringing the SCA up in this regard is that there were likely going to be people at the party that I'd known Way Back When. I was keen to be there and to introduce the Babe to a lot of my old friends.
One of the first people the Babe and I saw at the party was Tori, Topaz's daughter. She'd had a very close call with a heart condition a few years ago requiring surgery and treatment. She's doing well now. Tori decided to shave her head recently, which made her look a bit different from the last time I saw her.
I'd just sold a couple new buttons to the button company I write for and I had them and the latest catalog along. Tori and a bunch of folks on the porch ended up passing the catalog back and forth and howling. (It's always nice to hang out with other cheap, sensation-seeking people with low taste; I always feel like I've found my level of entertainment.)
Topaz was the consummate hostess (that air of charm and grace is the very thing for that kind of work) and swept graciously through the crowd periodically, talking to people. Larry was also visibly happy with everything and having a grand time.
Chuck, one of the people I'd known way back when I was first living in Eugene, was there. I was enormously flattered that he remembered me as soon as he heard me (the Man of a Thousand Voice, that's what I am). We talked about old times and this and that.
Chuck lofted an idea that we kicked around a bit, that being a gathering of all of us old SCA farts who were years and years and years ago. A get-together like that would give us all a chance to hear the old stories again and be reminded about things that had happened, sometimes to us, that we'd forgotten about. And life is fleeting after all; seeing everyone yet again would be something.
We bounced the idea off of Topaz. She's really interested, too. We talked about having someone actually videotape this "live-documentary" style (visions of Antiques Roadshow come to mind). I don't know where this is going to end up, but it sounds like something you're going to hear more about.
The Babe and I bade our goodbyes and headed back home. Another grand day out together with old friends. Life's good.
Larry & Topaz's 25th Anniversary
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Saturday, October 15, 2005
Good news
Here's some good news to leaven the last item: We signed papers for our new house. That is, we've found a builder we like and trust and has some lovely designs. He's really got his act together and, surprise of surprises, all the things I was suggesting to our former builder that he might do for enhancing otherwise crappy communications, this guy is already doing. Gee, who'd-a thunk o' that, eh? This builder is clearly running a varsity operation from what we've seen so far.
So, we've signed the papers for a lovely 2500sqft number. Ground will be broken in February 2006 and the house will be ready in late summer. It'll be very pretty and the development is quite attractive. And it's on flat ground, so we won't have the BS of trying to explain to the builder why the driveway isn't anywhere near as gently sloping as he promised.
Long day tomorrow. I'll tell you more about it soon.
Also coming up: I need to post photos from our trip to Portland for Topaz & Larry's 25th wedding anniversary and the family vacation to Leavenworth for Oktoberfest last week.
Good news
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Tuesday, October 04, 2005
Moonlight in Vermont
We spent the night in Northampton, MA. Before we left town, we went for a grand breakfast and then stopped at WEBS, the most amazing yarn store I've ever seen. They snagged the domain www.yarn.com, which alone shows a great deal of forethought, but that's not what makes them so cool. The storefront has a large retail space, about the size of a Joanne's Fabric or similar, and it's got a great selection of yarn, needles, patterns, and accessories. All well and good and a lovely place to munge around for yarnish things… but what makes the place really cool is that there's a warehouse in back that's probably 3000 square feet of 6' shelves of yarn that's on sale for one reason or another. It's so big that there are signs above the aisles saying "100," "200," and so on, like a library. I understand that knitters all over New England drive there to make obeisance. The Babe spent about an hour there and got some lovely fabric and a pattern for a shawl.
Equipped with blue and green wool/silk blend and replete with lots of good coffee and a large breakfast, we headed north to Vermont. There wasn't a lot about the trip, really, except that it's very pleasant to see how heavily forested Vermont is, too. (We've just gotta get back to New England again!) We stopped at the Visitor's Center right past the Vermont border for a pit stop and got a few tourist brochures, then headed north. We turned left at Ascutney and eventually arrived at the home of the Babe's high school friend, Nancy.
Nancy's retired now after a career in civil service doing some pretty interesting stuff. Her husband is going to be retiring shortly and moving up to the new house with her. Meanwhile, she's been staying with Zach, who is a charming dog (and you know that I don't much care for dogs usually, so trust me when I say that he's a really charming dog). Zach is very well trained (Nancy did an exceptional job) and has a very sweet disposition.
We got settled in and had a quiet evening playing cards. The next morning, we set out for breakfast in town and to do Tourist Things. (Sadly, I left my camera at home, so I didn't get photos of our day out, which was a real disappointment to me.) Nancy said we should go to the Calvin Coolidge birthplace in Plymouth. The Babe and I were a little unsure of this at first but Nancy said we should go, so go we did.
I'm glad we went. I knew very little about Coolidge prior to this and I learned a lot. I'd known about his legendary devotion to hard work and a sober attitude, but I hadn't known much else. There was a timeline of his life with a number of pictures, stories, and mementos. I'd never really looked at his pictures before and I didn't realize that he'd been quite a handsome man. Since the pictures of him were almost always black-and-white, I'd also not realized he was a redhead. His wife was quite a beauty as well.
One of the stories told about Coolidge is that a guest at a White House dinner bet her friends that she could get Coolidge to say at least three words during the course of the meal. When she told Coolidge about the bet, he replied "You lose." However, unlike Coolidge's tight-lipped personality, his wife Grace was fun-loving and rather effusive woman and they had an exceptionally happy marriage. Not long after they were married, Coolidge approached his wife with 52 pairs of socks that had holes in them. She asked him if he'd married her to darn socks. He replied, “No, but I find it mighty handy.”
Coolidge became president when Warren G. Harding died. He was sworn in as president by his father, who was among many other things a notary public, in his home at 2:47am by the light of a kerosene lamp. (The house didn't yet have electricity or a telephone.) He was an able administrator who did a pretty good job of holding the country together and keeping things going, but I don't get the impression he was much of a leader: Coolidge was not the dynamic sort.
Coolidge stayed at the homestead for one summer (the Secret Service men slept outside in tents!) and conducted the business of the country from there. There's a small post office station there at the homestead. The postmistress's salary was $50/month plus a percentage on the postage she sold, which brought her $1500/month with all the mail.
One other memorable thing of Coolidge's history: his son, Calvin Jr., died tragically about a year after Coolidge become president: he'd been playing tennis at the White House and gotten a blood blister on his foot… from which he developed septicemia and ultimately died. It was a great sadness.
The homestead itself has a number of buildings including a pretty church that's still used by the townsfolk. We saw the house Coolidge was born in. The bed was decorated with a hand-sewn quilt that Coolidge had made himself at the age of 10. It started raining about the time we'd made the tour through all the buildings. We ducked into the café that's on the premises and had tea and pie while the rain poured down for the better part of half an hour, then headed off.
Our next stop was the Billings Farm Museum. The Billings Farm Museum is a working dairy farm that's been in operation since 1871. Frederick Billings, the founder, was also an early conservationist and planted more than 10,000 trees in the area in a successful effort to reforest Vermont (which had been logged off very severely by 1840). The museum is fascinating, with exhibits of farm tools and farm machinery, even dioramas of activities. There's also a video tape loop showing a carpenter making a large water tub (which is on display nearby) using water-powered tools of the time. There was also a quilt show going on the week we were there (the Babe was particularly pleased about that). We spent a couple of hours looking at everything and then left.
It had been a remarkably edifying day already--I felt a bit like I'd done two school trips without the schoolbuses or having to keep track of a trip buddy--but we wanted to stop at a maple sugar farm, so we went to Sugarbush Farm. The gift shop was very large: they sold a wide variety of cheeses, lots of maple sugar goodies, and tons of jams, chutneys, preserves, mustards, and the occasional sausage, all of which presumably comes from the neighborhood. There were several dozen jars of assorted this and that opened for sampling in one room; I stayed there and grazed for a little while. The Babe and I ended up getting a selection of maple syrup gift tins and maple sugar candies to take home with us, but a 72-month old preposterously sharp cheddar came with us for nibbling on the trip. (You can buy this stuff off of their website; if you like a sharp cheese then this one's for you.)
We got back to Nancy's, enjoying the Vermont hill scenery along the way. We did dinner there and then popped out to a church rummage sale that was well worth the trip: the Babe and I got a couple of lovely sweaters for 50 cents each, as well as a few other items. (Great rummage sale!) We returned home and curled up for the night.
Moonlight in Vermont
Monday, October 03, 2005
Andras and Deirdre
We could easily have spent a couple days exploring Lexington and Concord. It's charming there and we'd have loved to see the inside of the Wayside and there was plenty of touristy stuff worth doing in the towns from the look of it. Add another thing to the list for the next time we're in Massachusetts.
We headed west to Worthington. Andras and Deirdre (et al.) live on a farm out there. It was a longer drive than we thought it'd be (Massachusetts is a lot wider than I thought it was and the roads weren't necessarily as traversable as I might have expected), so we got there around 6:00pm.
I've known Andras and Deirdre since 1982, when I met them at an early Pagan Spirit Gathering. They were head of Earthspirit then (and now) and they did lots of good things for the pagan and Wiccan communities back then (and still do, from what I can see). I was also blessed with the chance to work with them in Covenant of the Goddess for a number of years. They are fine people, wonderful singers, well-read and thoughtful, and they have a delicious sense of humor. They are also delightfully pretty. All these traits have been passed on to both of their children. The last times I saw them was in 1989 at their old house in Boston and then a couple years later in Seattle, when they came out to visit us. Donovan was very young and Isobel hadn't been born yet. They have long since moved from the Greater Boston area and are living on 135 acres in as pretty a valley as you've ever seen.
Having braved the roads and heading out to roughly the middle of nowhere (but a very pretty nowhere, I hasten to add!), we made it to the farm. There were many hugs and introductions. I introduced the Babe to them (they'd not met her before) and we both met Donovan (who wasn't talking much when I'd seen him many years before) and Isobel (who hadn't even been born the last time I saw A & D). It was amazing: 15 years and Deirdre hasn't changed. I'm of the opinion that she's never going to show her age.
It being later than we'd hoped to arrive, we took a tour around the farm while there was still light. The first thing we saw was the stream. There are several streams on the property; this one is the biggest.
The stream was running low when we saw it (although we heard tales of the flood a few years back, when the stream was auditioning for a role as "The Gushing Torrent"), so we could see the bed easily. As we got closer to it, we saw that there were a number of rock sculptures sticking up on the banks.
A friend of theirs comes by and creates rock sculptures. I didn't find out how. When the stream is fuller, I'm sure that some of these are sticking out from under the water, Andy Goldsworthy-style. (If you're not already familiar with Andy Goldsworthy's work, check out some sample images here.) I really like what he's done.
In a field near the stream, there's a maze in the making.
The maze is currently laid out with stones. I've always thought that a large parcel of land is enhanced by the addition of a maze somewhere.
Not far from the maze is a Peace Circle.
In the Peace Circle is a pile of rocks brought from all over the world and deposited here.
We headed back up from the Peace Circle towards the house and the animals.
We'd seen the chickens (some of whom were stretching the concept of "free-range" to its absolute limit) as we drove up. They're a good-looking bunch of birds and fresh free-range eggs are a culinary bedazzlement, but, honestly, I've seen chickens and there's not to say about them but, "Yup, Maw, that's a fine-looking bunch o' chickens!" Goats, on the other hand, have character--usually on the pugnacious side, but character nonetheless. The billy has an amazing set of horns.
We then went up to see the llama, whose name is Sinta.
The llama lives in a pen with a bunch of the goats. The goats and the llama are reasonably friendly and tolerate people getting into the pen with them.
Quite apart from the convenience of corralling the llama with the goats, the theory is that the llama will protect the goats from coyotes should any show up. "Has it done so?" I asked. "Well, no, but there is a llama nearby that stomped a porcupine to death when it got into the pen." "How did they know for sure?" "They had to pull quills out of the llama's feet." Hokay….
The Babe didn't get too close to Sinta. She doesn't have a fear of big animals, but she has seen llamas spit on two different occasions (they do spit every so often). Both times, it nailed one of her brothers, so I guess that counts as a draw.
I got close enough to pet Sinta a little. Llamas are rather adorable animals, generally, and I have always enjoyed the fact that they hum.
We then hiked up the hill. The Babe's knees were bothering her so she didn't join us. We passed the back of the farm house and could peer into Andras's office, which looked to be about the level of hoorah's nest that mine usually is.
We also went past the remains of the old sugar shack, which from the looks of it remains standing mostly out of force of habit at this point. Donovan told me that up until a year or two ago, you could still smell the lingering aroma of maple sugar in the shack.
The sugar shack was up the hill from the house. The sugar shack was on my right as I headed up the hill. Looking straight up the hill, there was a large clearing. I heard stories about sledding aaaaaaall the way down the hill, navigating the path at the bottom of the hill onto the road by the house, and then going all the way down the road to the stream: about 1/4 mile! Quite a ride, I must say! (I tried enhancing the picture as best I could, but the light was fading at that point and it was tough getting a good shot. Next time, next time.)
Facing away from the sugar shack to the left was more field. Although the picture doesn't show it, there's a much sharper drop-off that leads down to where the llamas and goats and bunnies are. Isobel and Donovan were telling me about how they liked sledding and skiing on that part of it best.
A little ways above the sugar shack on the right was another clearing, in which was a standing circle of stones that Andras and Deirdre had created.
Andras told me that they'd gotten stones in place in three different ways:
All three ways were fun. And the circle is standing, so they were all effective.
One of the stones looked very much like the Barber stone of the Avebury circle. It's a fine stone circle, as good as any contemporary stone circle I've seen. Of course, the surroundings and company improve it, too.
We went back down the hill, snagged the Babe, and went inside. Dinner was fantastic and there were several other people in the community joining us. Afterwards we dug out songs that we hadn't sung in ages and new gems that we hadn't had a chance to share with each other.
Andras reminded me of one song that I'd completely forgotten that I used to do, entitled "You Can Sing Anything You Want to 'Alice's Restaurant'." Andras, Deirdre, Donovan, and Isobel all joined in for two songs with harmony. We were thrilled.
Sue was also able to join us later in the evening--huzzah!
We kept singing and telling stories until 11-ish, at which time we bade sorry goodbyes and headed off for the evening. I'd had a grand time and was very pleased with having been able to share some of my favorite people with my favorite person and vice versa.
The Babe was vastly impressed with Donovan and Isobel (me, too) said as much. We'll be visiting again and not in 15 years. We got to our hotel, crawled into bed, and fell asleep almost immediately after a rich, happy day.
Andras and Deirdre
Friday, September 30, 2005
Lexington & Concord
Boston was grand fun and we're going to do it again. (Note: We had plenty of lobster while we were there. I'm sure that'll elicit cries of deep and abiding sympathy from all of you dear readers.) It was time to pack up and head west to visit dear friends, Andras and Deirdre. But first, we needed to get our car.
For those of you unfamiliar with Boston, let me explain something: you don't have to be crazy to drive in Boston, but it sure helps. Boston is post-graduate driving. I wasn't interested in trying to drive around Boston at all so we had made arrangements to pick up our Enterprise rental car at the airport (the offer of "free prick-up and delivery" notwithstanding).
We got to the Enterprise rental car location and they offered us an upgrade to the car we normally drive for an additional $5/day, which we jumped on. It wasn't the same color, but wotthehell; we knew what it felt like and how it handled. I got directions to a Bank of America. We headed to the bank. I had a lot to do ultimately, so it took a little while. I asked the teller, who was a very helpful person, where I might find a Starbuck's in the area. She wasn't sure, so she asked her boss who was in the next cage. He said, "Well, you know, this is actually an historic district of Massachusetts. It's probably the only place where there isn't a Starbuck's nearby." I laughed. He suggested we could head into Boston--only about 5 miles away as the crow flies but could've been an hour as the crow drives--where there were Starbuck's facing other Starbuck's across the street from each other (we'd seen 'em).
We got lost heading out from the bank. (It turned out later that there was a really confusing and unmarked roundabout we needed to have navigated differently.) I ended up going down one road and looking for somewhere to cut back up to the road and try again. No luck, so I turned the other way into a large parking lot to get back to the road and keep going until I found some way to get headed in the direction I was trying to go.
And then I stopped. And I got out of the car. And I took a picture. Yes, we'd stumbled onto the corporate headquarters of the NECCO Company! You can see the Necco Wafers on the side of the door. How very cool!! It had never dawned on me after years of enjoying NECCO Wafers that "NECCO" is an acronym for "New England Confectionary Company." According to the history on their web page, they recently acquired Clark Bar, so if you're a fan of Clark Bars, that's who makes 'em now.
Well, we finally escaped the Greater Boston area and headed north to Salem. The Babe had a desire to see the Salem Witch Museum and I had to admit a certain morbid curiousity myself. Salem's a very pretty little town and the museum isn't nearly as bad for misinformation as I thought it was going to be--in fact, the part on the witch trials themselves was pretty good--but the stuff on contemporary Wicca and paganism was pretty pathetic and the gift shop was truly ghastly for appealing to stereotypes. Oh, well, it could've been a heckuva lot worse than it was.
We were heading west to Worthington, but we made a couple stops on the way. Our next stop was up to the Lexington and Concord area. Some of this was for the Revolutionary War stuff, but the Babe had one very particular objective in mind: the Wayside. The Wayside was the home of Louisa May Alcott, Margaret Sidney and Nathaniel Hawthorne. Sadly, the house was closed the day we were there so we couldn't see the inside, but the outside was gorgeous. Hawthorne expanded the house considerably when he was there.
The Wayside is part of the Minuteman National Historical Park and very near to the house is the site of the first engagement of the British troops and the Minutemen. We drove up the road a little farther and then walked across a bridge to look at the Minuteman statue.
This was the battle that Paul Revere, William Dawes, and a few others rode to tell people about. The British were coming to Concord to destroy rebel caches of supplies. (They found some, but most of the caches were moved to other towns.) And it was here that the British first fired on the Minutemen and vice versa. The Brits prevailed against the first group, who were badly outnumbered, but were ultimately routed
I took photos of the fields around this. It's beautiful there and I had a hard time envisioning the battle. On the other hand, I was able to see how easy it'd be for the British troops to be harried along the road by snipers: it's very woody along the road from Boston to Concord and it'd be a piece of cake to hide in the woods and take potshots at the troops coming by, particularly when you know they're coming by and they're obligingly wearing red to make them easier to see.
I was able to sneak a good shot of the Babe while we were there (hence the look on her face). It's very difficult getting her to pose for pictures, so I takes 'em where I c'n gets 'em.
We walked back up the path to the main road. One of the things we'd walked past as we went down was Ralph Waldo Emerson's house.
The house is beautiful. It has a large, rolling lawn and several outbuildings. There's a vegetable garden that's probably about half an acre off to one side in the front. And the river is down the hill from the house to make lovely sounds in the evenings.
Before we left the area, we stopped at a delightful cheese shop in town and got provisions. Then, having driven by yet another Unitarian Church, we headed west towards Worthington for dinner and friends.
Lexington & Concord
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